Dec. 22, 2022

If Not Me Than Who with Ronnie Santana


My name is Ronnie Santana, I have been married to my wonderful wife for 14 years and we have been blessed with 3 beautiful children. We have been through the mud over the years, but together we have pushed through the unthinkable. All along while fighting my own personal mental battle and discovering who I am as a husband, father, business leader, investor and most importantly a god warrior. I hope to connect with other dudes to talk about what most people are scared or the issues that people hide behind closed doors feeling alone and in the dark.

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Ronnie & Lorna Santana

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We are Ronnie and Lorna Santana. We have been together for 17 years, married for 14. We have three beautiful children, ages 11, 8, and 3. We have been involved in our local community for most of our lives but not many people know our full story. Over the years we have gone through your typical ups and downs. However, our story goes deeper than what most marriages survive. We are eager, nervous and excited to share the valuable insight on the struggles that come with affairs, dishonesty, pain and rebuilding trust. Most people don’t talk about the nitty gritty and now that we are on the other side of infidelity, we are hoping to shed some light on what it looks like to go through those relationship altering events and how to work through them because let's be honest, you never really overcome them. From a husband-and-wife perspective healing and communication can be very different for both. We have been on the path of personal growth, rebuilding trust, and learning how our spouses receive our love over the years. We believe there is value in unfiltered communication and that it is essential to your healing process. We hope our story is a testament that will encourage others to work hard and really dig deep to believe in themselves so that they too can have hope in rebuilding their marriage.